I was 19 years old, in film school at NYU – Tisch, when I was called to serve birthing people and their families.
I decided the simplest way I could serve people was to start at the beginning … in the first moments of life. I cold-called every midwife in a 15 mile radius of my East Village apartment. This is how I met my mentor, a certified nurse midwife attending homebirths throughout the five boroughs.
In 2004, I attended Connie Sultana’s birth doula workshop through the organization DONA. During my first years as a doula in NYC, I volunteered with Bellevue Hospital’s doula program, helping recently immigrated, uninsured and non-English speaking people achieve human-centered, and family-honoring births.
AS A BIRTH WORKER I’ve learned to honor this passage as a sacred, magical event. I learned that birth is a Portal. Birth work has taught me how to serve people through the most intense experiences in life: the hardest, longest labors and most awe-inspiring first breaths. I am grateful for each person who invited me to care for them. Birth is sacred, no matter where it happens.
In 2007, I got my first job as a Labor & Delivery Nurse, a role I’ve cherished – and fought to sustain – for nearly fifteen years. As an L&D nurse, I’ve worked in hospitals all over the country. In 2009, I was blessed to travel to Guatemala for six months through the organization Midwives for Midwives. There I lived, learned and worked with Indigenous midwives, including my mentor Odilia Raxjal, serving their rural highland communities.
I’ve served birthing and postpartum people as a high-risk OB nurse in Los Angeles, San Diego, Dallas, Omaha, California’s Central Valley and the Navajo Nation. Each setting taught me new lessons. Every single person-baby-family I’ve served has opened my heart and changed my life. That’s why I’ll keep reminding you that #yournurselovesyou. Love is the foundation of my care.
In October 2022, I am thrilled to be publishing my first book, co-authored and created by my beloved hero and friend, Erin R. Williams.
Learn more about HOW TO TAKE CARE.
When I’m not working, I am passionately researching trauma-informed care, uplifting world-changing Black and Indigenous revolutionaries and healers, and cooking Midwestern casseroles. My most important role is to help raise a funny, compassionate and radical child. I live with and love a beautiful man who makes me belly laugh, and two poorly-trained dogs. I like survival shows, stand-up paddle-boarding, camping and hiking. I am proud to be my family’s herbalist, beginning my study with Kate Bodmann of Land of Milk & Honey Herbs in fall 2022!